Turning ‘Living Rooms’ into Church

By Kristy Etheridge
Eric Boutieller stepped onto the stage at Tri-State Fellowship in and asked about 300 church goers to use their imaginations for a minute.
“Right now, you are in my living room,” said Boutieller. “Sit back, relax.”
As a regional coordinator for My Hope with Billy Graham, Boutieller wanted to show the congregation what it would look like if they decided to invite their unchurched friends and neighbors into their own living rooms this fall.
That’s what thousands of believers will do in November when the My Hope project culminates with an evangelistic video featuring portions of Billy Graham’s preaching, intertwined with true stories of people who decided to follow Christ.
During Tri-State Fellowship’s Sunday service, Boutieller invited the church to view a video for My Hope, as if they were at his home for the event.
“There’s a man by the name of Billy Graham,” said Boutieller. “You may have heard of him. He’s going to share where he finds hope, and it’s where my wife and I find hope as well.”
The lights dimmed as he stepped down from the stage. For the next few minutes, the church watched three people share their testimonies.
A father battling cancer.
A Super Bowl champion who found his life spiraling out of control.
A young woman who couldn’t shake the fear, depression, and hopelessness driving her towards taking her own life.
As the video came to a close, Boutieller shared his own testimony with the friends gathered in his “living room.” It only took three minutes, and the message was clear.
“Life makes a lot more sense holding the hand of the One who’s spinning the universe than doing it alone,” said Boutieller.
During the actual My Hope event, believers—called “Matthews,” after the disciple who invited his own friends to meet Jesus—will have spent months, maybe years, developing authentic relationships with their friends and neighbors before inviting them over in faith to share the Gospel.
The leadership at Tri-State Fellowship was hoping about four dozen people would sign up to be “Matthews,” but to be honest, not everyone was confident the congregation would respond.
Boutieller was also hoping for change. He has visited countless churches all around the region, encouraging them to step out in faith. This time was different. This church is his own.
So, when he asked the people to consider making a commitment to My Hope, in a way, it was a moment of truth.
“God chooses to speak through people like you or me,” he said. “And if we don’t speak, who will?”
With a tall, wooden cross set up at the front of the church, Boutieller asked those who had decided to join My Hope as “Matthews” to come forward and place their commitment cards at the foot of the cross.
One by one, people stood up. Before long, families were streaming down the aisles.
The goal was 50 “Matthews” between May and November. They got 105 in less than 10 minutes.
Together, the church had taken a step of faith.
Chris Wiles, teaching pastor at Tri-State Fellowship, says My Hope will be at its best if the congregation starts building relationships as soon as possible.
“Start now,” said Wiles, “so when November rolls around, they’re not targets, they’re your friends.”
Interested in joining My Hope with Billy Graham? Get started today.